Oh, the burden of being a friend

to the strong

 

They ask only what we can give

knowing it will take

all that we have

 

And they always know

what they ask

so never fail to forgive

when we fail

before the end

 

Oh, the burden of being friend

to the strong

 

To know and not understand

the brilliance

we touch and yet do not

 

To see pity and true sorrow

in their eyes

when they see and know

how little we can do

 

To stand before a magic mirror

seeing ourselves clearly held

bound at the threshold

while beyond our reach

go the strong ones

striding into a world of possibilities

 

Yes, they know what little we can give

when ideals become reality

but they know, too, the greatness

of our most precious gift:

 

We will not refuse the burden,

the burden of loving the strong.

Sometimes the moon

With full and radiant face

Smiles down upon

The quiet secret place

 

And sometimes stars

Surprised from reaches dark and wide

Peer sparkling

Where the wonders are

 

And sometimes,

(O, this is best of all)

You, my friend

See and share

What fairy gardens flower for me.

 

My memory is full of all those whose lives

Somewhere, sometime touched upon mine leaving behind

A shining residue of love, friendship and hope.

Without these freely given values, my life would

Surely not have been so filled to the brim

With life and all those things that make it meaningful.

Yes, even those who criticized me, were even cruel,

Contributed to a fuller understanding of life’s

Eternal struggle to shape the character of a man.

All the friends and many relations I have known

Enriched me, so I am loath to ask for more.

It seems impossible for me to say in words

How much my life was filled with joy

Because of you and you, my friends and family.

 

 

GLASS RAIN—the poetry by Margaret Roxby

“THE SECRET PLACE,” was in the author’s words, “written after a discussion with my son about the mysteries of our universe and, especially (in his words) the possibility of the illusionary qualities of what we think we see and feel, etc., etc., etc.”—from poetry Round Robin letter written in 1991. It is included this week for Listening Day.

REFRACTIONS—a series by Robert Roxby

“THE HUMAN TOUCH,” is included this week for July 30, Friendship Day. The poem, newly edited, was first published in the author’s collection Reflections on a Lifetime.

THROUGH THE LOOKING GLASS—the poetry of Kathleen Roxby

“THE BURDEN” is included this week for July 30, Friendship Day. The poem was inspired by the film Julia, released in 1977  based on the Lillian Hellman’s story of childhood friendship with someone named Julia (see Hellman’s story Pentimento).

 

Readers who write in response to one of the prompts listed each month in Splintered Glass, may see their work presented here on the last week of that month. Though poems are preferred, short prose work will also be considered for publication.

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  1. List Splintered Glass prompt which inspired the work in the text of your email.
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  3. Include two brief sentences about the author. Example: Michael Whozits is the author of A Book and The Curl, a blog. He is a retired pilot and avid surfer.
  4. Submission must arrive no later than the 3rd Wednesday of the month in which the Splintered Glass prompt appeared. Only one reader’s submission will be selected for any given month.
  5. Send submission to karoxby@gmail.com.
  1. Both France and the United States have special days this month celebrating their break with monarchy and the start toward independence. What does independence or freedom mean to you?
  2. There are three selection this month that focus on listening: to words and ideas, trees and nature, to the messages left in artifacts from other times. What is your favorite sound and why?
  3. Be Someone Day occurs this month. What does it mean to “be someone?”
  4. One poet this month suggest that friendship can be a burden. Do you agree or not? Are there inherit obligations, a sort of contract to which we agree when we choose a friend?

 

The river delta so thick with silt

It sits like a swipe of peanut butter

Dotted with sampans and junks

Unmoving, even near harbor’s sea edge.

 

Remnants of a Portuguese past,

Still linger in shaded patio,

Whisper from delicate iron tracery,

Rust with silent bells in a church steeple.

 

A small arch offers little shade

To guards poised to stop errant steps,

Beside the foot path to China’s gate:

Sun-bleached, hard-packed

Bleak—up to and beyond—

Through distant green and empty hills

Which would otherwise welcome.

 

Two nationals returning

Approach the gate with eyes down

Walk forward in a backward slow gait

Carefully placing steps

As if to leave no trace of their passage.

 

Elsewhere, away up hill

Past mahjong gaming rooms,

A temple squats beside the road.

Within its tepid coolness,

Carved images of monks,

Fragrance of incense, flowers

Both fresh and dying,

A few poignant photographs.

 

Anchored at the foot of the hill,

In glitter and wealth, the casino boat—

Offering free passage home

For any with emptied pockets.

 

In the heavy velvet air

Summer-muffled,

Laughter seems out of place

On this hot afternoon.

Iron dawn

rolls

out

flat

Unpatterned

rumbles

into

the

colossal

caldron

of

mogul

day

 

The molten metal consumes all

 

And when the run is done

nothing is left

but emptiness

and

the

cold

brass-lined

sky

Not to live forever, but to be remembered beyond the last heartbeat, the final breath.  To leave a name painted, written or carved, to tell the air and any eye that chances by that the maker of this name once lived.  Perchance someone might ponder awhile the name left behind, or report the sight of the found name, giving it sound once more shaped in the voice of a future stranger.

Is this not the reason for so much that we do?  Do we not all yearn for such immortality?  Not to live forever, but only to be remembered.

GLASS RAIN—the poetry by Margaret Roxby

“THE BOREDOM RUN” is included this week for Hot Enough For Ya Day, July 23.

KALEIDOSCOPE—a series by Kathleen Roxby

“GRAFFITI: DREAMS OF IMMORTALITY” is included this week for Be Someone Day, July 21.

THROUGH THE LOOKING GLASS—the poetry of Kathleen Roxby

“MACAU” is included this week for Hot Enough For Ya Day, July 23. The poem was inspired by the author’s visit to Macau in 1976 long before this Portuguese foothold was returned to China in 1999.